I know I have really done many, if any, posts regarding my interest in BDSM or polyamory.
Sometimes I swear Mina and I are the same person… I identify with her so closely. The same can be said for the way I feel about Violet.
Anyway, Sylvanus’s post about polyamory is exactly the way J and I feel about someone who we would invite to share in our relationship.
The second post is about D/s relationships. I wish I had read something like this years ago, then maybe I wouldn’t have been naive enough to think that there was no need for a safe word, because “I trust him so much and he would never do anything to me that I didn’t want”. After I was at the receiving end of anal rape, I knew this was not the case. Because of this incident, I felt it was vital for me to share Sylvanus’s post with you all.
You don’t always have to learn from your own mistakes, sometimes it’s more than wise to learn from the mistakes and advice of others.