I already posted about this on my tumblr, but I thought the issue was important enough to post here as well.
Pan Party: To the submitter via email address: (TW: gender erasure)
I’m sorry, I don’t feel comfortable posting your submission as it is.
You’ve kind of mixed up sex and gender, when you talk about being a girl or boy and genitals.
You’ve kind of mixed up gender presentation and gender, when you talk about suits and dresses.
Gender isn’t gender roles, either. And when you say that there’s no such thing as gender, and that gender is a social construct, I understand it’s because you’ve mixed it up with sex and presentation, but you erase people genders and insist they are false.
We all know that genitals, clothes or anything else isn’t gender and doesn’t define gender. But gender is real. You say you’re pansexual, but I wouldn’t feel comfortable in a relationship with someone who didn’t believe my gender existed.
Also, how did you submit via email address?
Totally right, it’s the presentation of gender, what is ‘normal’ and what isn’t, which is a social construct, not gender itself.
People construct their own gender themselves in the way that is true for them, to say that it is constructed by society is to take away a person’s identity, make them less of a person.