The Kink Spectrum Revisited

I first did a post on the kink spectrum back in April 2011. I figured seeing as it has been nearly a year, and I have done two other kink-related posts recently (here and here), I may as well give it another go, this time though I have included another test from OkCupid.com, the result of which will follow the two original tests.

My results for The Kink Spectrum Test:

 

Connoiseur
Kink repertoire 79%; 65% mental, 42% polar, and 62% unusual. Previously: Kink repertoire 71%; 64% mental, 79% polar, and 52% unusual.

Explanation of variables (I have highlighted the categories which I fall into, and noted difference to previous result in sea green):

KINK: How broad your kink repertoire is.
If your percentage isn’t as high as you think it should be, keep this in mind: there are people who like kinky things that you don’t like out there, and that may be a useful thing to know. Look for people who have similar overall kinkiness percentages.
– Higher, not by much though.

MENTAL: Mental vs. physical axis.
0-30: you enjoy the physical more than the mental
30-70: you enjoy the physical and mental equally
70-100: you enjoy the mental more than the physical
– Higher (barely), same category.

POLAR: Polar vs. nonpolar axis.
Whether it matters who’s doing it — you or the other person.
0-30: you like it both ways
30-70: your preferences are somewhat directional
70-100: you do one thing, they do another
– Lower, it would seem I now take a more balanced approach.

UNUSUAL: Unusual vs. typical axis.
0-30: you like the usual things
30-70: you do some of both
70-100: you prefer strange stuff
– Higher, still in the same category, but slightly less vanilla.

Within the cornucopia of kink, there are some things that most people, even people who don’t think of themselves as kinky, enjoy. Then there are things that it’s really best to ask first, or you might find yourself staring at a shocked or confused expression on the face of your naked companion. So it’s good to know how typical vs. unusual your preferences are.

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My results for The Kink Spectrum Analysis Test:

 

Blue (450 nm)
You scored 68% self-confidence and 61% bandwidth! Previously: 70% self-confidence and 67% bandwidth.

Comparison with previous results is in magenta.

You scored 64% giving and 31% receiving on oral.
– Decrease in both, 68% giving and 38% receiving.
You scored 78% giving and 100% receiving on anal.
– Slight decrease in giving (89%), and now all for receiving (90%).
You scored 8% giving and 50% receiving on bondage.
– Interestingly preference for giving has not changed (8%), and but desire for receiving has (64%).
You scored 44% giving and 62% receiving on humiliation.
– No change for giving (44%), and confirmation of what I was already suspecting, that I am indeed more interested in receiving (71%).
You scored 28% giving and 67% receiving on pain.
– I’m not so interest in the art pain it would seem, 44% giving and 76% receiving.
You scored 36% dominance and 53% submission.
– More dominant (33%) and less submissive (60%), which is actually the opposite of what I’ve been feeling lately. Go figure. Though I may be confusing my desire for humiliation and degradation with submission.
You scored 71% voyeurism and 58% exhibitionism.
– Same interest in watching (71%), but would like to be watched slightly more (53%).

Besides that, you’re 44% into fetishism (what the? that’s certainly a surprise, 75%) and 88% polysexual (same same same, 88%) (i.e. interested in sex with multiple partners, whether at the same time or not). You’ll probably want a partner who is similar, whether you scored high or low in these categories.

Finally, you scored 39% on autoerotic (this is also an unexpected change, 65%) – a scale that measures your ability and/or willingness to have kinky fun without a partner. It’s not exactly a matching criterion, but it’s good for you if your score is high. Keep it up!

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And now we have the new test:

My results for The GIGANTIC Sexual Impurity Test:

 

The Seeker of Kink
You have 51% Impurity, 37% Experience, 69% Fantasies, and 35% Freakyness!

You have experimented quite a bit in your life, but you long to do more… a lot more. All those taboos are simply begging to be broken… (Yeah, that’s about right.)

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And that’s it. Take the tests for yourself, and let me know how you go in the comments below 🙂

Where Are YOU On The Kink Spectrum?

Came across these tests today on OkCupid (thanks to Mademoiselle Kitty’s FetLife account), and I thought I’d share the results with you all 🙂

My result for The Kink Spectrum Test …
Connoiseur
Kink repertoire 71%; 64% mental, 79% polar, and 52% unusual.

Explanation of variables (I have placed emphasis on which category range I fall into):

KINK: How broad your kink repertoire is.
If your percentage isn’t as high as you think it should be, keep this in mind: there are people who like kinky things that you don’t like out there, and that may be a useful thing to know. Look for people who have similar overall kinkiness percentages.

MENTAL: Mental vs. physical axis.
0-30: you enjoy the physical more than the mental
30-70: you enjoy the physical and mental equally
70-100: you enjoy the mental more than the physical

POLAR: Polar vs. nonpolar axis.
Whether it matters who’s doing it — you or the other person.
0-30: you like it both ways
30-70: your preferences are somewhat directional
70-100: you do one thing, they do another

UNUSUAL: Unusual vs. typical axis.
0-30: you like the usual things
30-70: you do some of both
70-100: you prefer strange stuff
Within the cornucopia of kink, there are some things that most people, even people who don’t think of themselves as kinky, enjoy. Then there are things that it’s really best to ask first, or you might find yourself staring at a shocked or confused expression on the face of your naked companion. So it’s good to know how typical vs. unusual your preferences are.

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My result for The Kink Spectrum Analysis Test …
Blue (450 nm)
You scored 70% self-confidence and 67% bandwidth!

Wow! You have quite a big repertoire when it comes to kinky sex. And you’re probably also willing to play on either side of the fence. You should look for another Blue, or an Ultraviolet if you want to broaden your horizon. Greens may be okay as well but will probably bore you after a while. Reds are too vanilla for you.

But I promised you a more detailed analysis, so here it is. Note that most scales are twofold: There are separate values for giving (active) and receiving (passive). If you scored high on one of them, you should look for a partner who scored high on the other. If you scored high on both of them, go for someone who is similar (or for multiple partners if you’re into that). If you scored low on both, this probably is not your kind of kink.

You scored 68% giving and 38% receiving on oral.
You scored 89% giving and 90% receiving on anal.
You scored 8% giving and 64% receiving on bondage.
You scored 44% giving and 71% receiving on humiliation.
You scored 44% giving and 76% receiving on pain.
You scored 33% dominance and 60% submission.
You scored 71% voyeurism and 53% exhibitionism.

Besides that, you’re 75% into fetishism and 88% polysexual (i.e. interested in sex with multiple partners, whether at the same time or not). You’ll probably want a partner who is similar, whether you scored high or low in these categories.

Finally, you scored 65% on autoerotic – a scale that measures your ability and/or willingness to have kinky fun without a partner. It’s not exactly a matching criterion, but it’s good for you if your score is high. Keep it up!

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Interesting, no?

On a side note, J and I delved into the world of age play for the first time last night.  My own response to this certainly wasn’t what I had expected *grin*  It was more just name calling, with me being “a naughty girl for spending all of Daddy’s money while he was away” and such like.  I’m very interested to see how this develops 🙂
The BDSM Emblem

Formspring.me Questions & Answers Part 8

A roundup of the latest questions that I have been asked through formspring.me.

Sadism – nature or nurture?
mainly nature, but you can have instances of nurture

Is there anything you would not do for love, if so, what is it?
kill, I would not kill anyone

If you could own any kind of pet, what would it be?
a ferret, I would love to own a ferret!! But alas, they are illegal in New Zealand

How do you personally define what constitutes as sex?
if you’re performing an act of any kind & you believe it’s sex, then it’s sex, it’s all about intent

Which Star Wars character do you most identify with?
I haven’t watched enough Star Wars movies, or often enough to answer this question

Ever have a near death experience?
thankfully, no

If you were asked how many times you have had sex in your life, what do you think the answer would be?
a huge number, I don’t even know how to guess that

Have you ever had incestuous thoughts before?
no, unless you count having sex with my clone

Would you ever consider opening up your relationship to some physical play with another couple? Would it require all persons to agree and attend at all times? Or could just one partner play with full consent?
I consider our relationship to already be an open one, we have played with other couples before, requires agreement of all parties involved, and one partner can play alone with full consent

If you knew that you would die the next time you had sex, would you remain celibate forever, or have sex that one last time?
I would probably remain celibate, as long as I can still cuddle… that is of course unless it includes masturbation, then I’m totally going to die

What is a Dominant? (A brief definition please. Looking for help to put into words. Thank you.)
Someone who has authority over a submissive, ideally while employing great respect for the others involved so as to not take advantage

What made you smile today?
A satirical letter in the letters to the editor in the newspaper

What is your morning routine?
wake up, have breakfast (which normally consists of a coffee and something else), read the front couple of pages of the paper and the letters to the editor, get dressed/have shower, have a smoke, everything from then on varies

I’m getting sick and tired of people talking about Claire and myself. All I ever hear is how we’re apparently weird, illegal, and gross. I don’t know if I can take it anymore. I think I’m done with formspring. Gonna close it soon. I’d be better off right?
Umm… I don’t know who you or Claire are….

does the carpet match the curtains?
indeed it does

top 3 twitter crushes
@bexielady, @mydesire, and @flexibeast

Want to know something about me, or what I think about something? Ask me here.

Formspring.me Questions & Answers Part 5 NSFW

A roundup of the latest questions that I have been asked through formspring.me.

Still catching up on the backlog, as I previously mentioned here.

If you were a man for the day what would you do?
Sex, lots of sex and just go about everyday stuff, comparing how I get treated to when I’m a woman

Describe me in 5 words
I don’t think I know you well enough to do tht

When it comes to “play-time” Fingers or toys???
Toys

when did u last get fucked?
Friday night

What’s something that everyone assumes about you that isn’t true?
Tht I’m a bitch

is there anything you’d consider off limits for a formspring questions?
No, I’m a pretty open book

Do you know about twitcam? twitters new live stream web cam site…
Yay?

Who do you admire, and why?
April Flores, she’s a beautiful, sexy, confident woman

If you were to see a Broadway show, which would you pick?
I don’t know which shows are currently on broadway

can i eat you out
No

whyyyyyyyy
I have no idea who you are

Who’s the sexiest woman alive?
April Flores of course

formspring.me/DeannaStorm please!
Thts a bit spammy

whoooo want to fuck with me and who want to suck my dick
Um, not me

who want to suck my dick and who want to fuck
You don’t get points for asking the same question twice

do u think my dick small or big
I haven’t seen it to make that decision

I am a firm believer in using the word “Cunt”. Howdo you react internally to this word. Do you use it?
To me it’s such a harsh, angry word. The worst swear word. But I can see the benefit in claiming it. I only use it as “cunt nugget” as a humorous name, like “dick munch”

Are you going to spend some bedroom time with anyone special this Christmas??
Nothing with no one I wouldn’t normally

When you’re at family gatherings, what are some things you’d love to say or do, but won’t?
Nothing really, I say everything I want to say

If you could live anywhere, where would you live?
San Fransico

What has been your favorite sexual experience so far this year?
My sex life getting back on track

What’s your fondest memory from the recent blizzard?
It’s summer here 🙂

What is your favorite punctuation mark?
!? Equally 🙂

Why do you think people have to have boyfriend/ girlfriend relationships? Why can’t it be we’re fuck buddies or lovers or casual sex partners instead?
That depends on the situation whether any of those labels are appropriate. And they are only labels

How many non-spam or automated emails do you get per day?
1 if I’m lucky

Care to grab a bite to eat? If so, where are we going? If not.. you can skip this question.(Money/Time/Space are not issues)
Anywhere for coffee and a chat 🙂

Do you?
Do I what?

do you masterbate and is so how often?
Yes, three or so times per week

Ask me absolutely anything!