What’s Your Kink?

My particular area of interest seems to change every six months or so. The following is pretty accurate for the way I’m feeling at the moment.

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You Scored as Submissive(((Note: This quiz is not totally comprehensive because of the length such a quiz would be. I kept it sex-based because I felt that psychological profiles and motivations were too complicated and vary too greatly among people that practice BDSM.)))It feels good to serve. A lack of control in the bedroom can be fun and relaxing. Being with a dominant person wouldn’t be a bad idea.

Submissive
89%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur
89%
Experimental
82%
Degradation Lover
75%
Switch
71%
Masochist
68%
Sadist
50%
Bondage
43%
Dominant
32%
Vanilla
4%

You can do the test for yourself here

HNT (on Friday): The Perceptions of Others & Fireworks on the Skin

As a reward for my faithfully readers who are still with me after this quiet period, I give you not one, but TWO Half-Nekkid Thursday contributions:

This is my butt (obviously). It is my most favourite body part. According to my friend Dee, my back isn’t half bad either, though I honestly hadn’t thought of it that way until she had mentioned it. It’s interesting how the perceptions of others can change your own perceptions of yourself.

And here we have the bonus image. I love how cheeky I look in this photo, which is exactly the look I was going for, so yay πŸ˜€

Getting back to the perceptions of others influencing your own perceptions of yourself. Lately I have been thinking about my mother’s perception of beauty. Now I want to be clear that this isn’t an attack on her perceptions or opinions, we can’t all have the same idea of beauty, then we wouldn’t be individuals.

Perhaps it was her veiled disgust at my fat rolls that led me to fully embrace fat acceptance and discover the beauty within myself, for myself. How you perceive your own self also influences how others perceive you, it influences the way you carry yourself, how confident you look, the aura you have. Reject the negative and embrace the positive.

There are always going to be people out there who don’t share your view, you just need to take that negative energy and turn it into something positive. Find those who share your positive view and surround yourself with them.

Change is a gradual process, it takes time to erode through the many layers of negative sediment. This is the same in many areas of life, not just body acceptance, but also in accepting your own abilities, your own sexuality. Your own positive change can in turn help others do the same.

Change your stretchmarks, and make them fireworks on your skin!*

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*someone @mentioned to me on Twitter that their friend called their stretchmarks ‘fireworks on the skin’, I can’t remember who sorry.

HNT: All Wrapped Up

As I first said I would way back here and mentioned again here, here’s a pic of my completed knitting!!

My second attempt at the purl beret is still pretty big. I think it will look at lot better once my hair has grown (quite) a bit.

So as a tribute to the epic mission that was the completion of the scarf, here is this week’s Half-Nekkid Thursday:

This image is also a tribute to itself really… who knew that getting your other half to take a semi-nude photo could almost result in a domestic! It’s not my fault J couldn’t see exactly how I envisioned the picture inside my head πŸ˜› hehe

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HNT: A Little Gender Bending NSFW

HA!! This post is such a good example of what my life is like, there’s always something somewhat sex-related just waiting to pop up when you least expect it!!

It’s been an exciting day!!

My wedding dress has arrived, and is now safely on its way to my sister’s house where J can’t see it. A number of other clothing items arrived at the same time (I ❀ clothes). Luckily, my sister’s husband arrived with my birthday present shortly after the courier, giving me just enough time to try the dress on.

My birthday present is a beginner crochet guide (yay for wool-related activities!!). Hopefully I’ll be able to complete a small baby blanket in time for the birth of my soon-to-be-sister-in-law’s first baby.

The first exciting delivery of the day was my very first strap-on!! (This is the somewhat NSFW part.)

This is the Vibrating Harness in black and the Echo in Copper from Tantus Inc. The delivery came with some other products which I shall talk about another time πŸ™‚

Just in time for Half-Nekkid Thursday πŸ™‚ Now I just need to find someone to try it out with…