What’s Your Kink?

My particular area of interest seems to change every six months or so. The following is pretty accurate for the way I’m feeling at the moment.

You Scored as Submissive(((Note: This quiz is not totally comprehensive because of the length such a quiz would be. I kept it sex-based because I felt that psychological profiles and motivations were too complicated and vary too greatly among people that practice BDSM.)))It feels good to serve. A lack of control in the bedroom can be fun and relaxing. Being with a dominant person wouldn’t be a bad idea.

Exhibitionist / Voyeur
Degradation Lover

You can do the test for yourself here

“Unusual” Orgasms & Sex

I came across the above postcard will looking through the latest PostSecret, and while I don’t think having orgasms in your sleep is particularly unusual or uncommon (I have been known to have them myself, and I’ve been told others do as well), it got me thinking.

Is there any particular incident that has happened to you and caused orgasm that you think is “weird” or “not normal”? Or something that’s been a turn-on and has got you thinking, “surely I’m the only one who responds this way?” (excluding pedophilia etc of course). Share it here and you may find that it’s not so uncommon after all 🙂 majority of people will be moderated before their comments get approved (because not enough of you have commented before!! 😛 ), so don’t be scared, we’re all friends here 🙂

Sex and orgasms are still really such taboo subjects in many areas of society, which many people get embarrassed talking about or think that it should be something that is hidden, is it any wonder that many of us think some of the things that happen to us are weird and wrong, and they must be only one that it is happening too. I’m talking about plain ol’ vanilla type sex right through to the other end of the spectrum. Just remember Rules 34-36 and 46 of Rules of the Internet:

34. There is porn of it, no exceptions.
35. If no porn is found of it, it will be made.
36. There will always be more fucked up shit than what you just saw.

46. There is furry porn of it. No exceptions.

We need to start a more encompassing and open discourse, if people realize these things they think are “weird” and “not normal” actually are quite common, then maybe it will in turn lead to a more open, happier and well adjusted society?