What’s Your Kink?

My particular area of interest seems to change every six months or so. The following is pretty accurate for the way I’m feeling at the moment.

You Scored as Submissive(((Note: This quiz is not totally comprehensive because of the length such a quiz would be. I kept it sex-based because I felt that psychological profiles and motivations were too complicated and vary too greatly among people that practice BDSM.)))It feels good to serve. A lack of control in the bedroom can be fun and relaxing. Being with a dominant person wouldn’t be a bad idea.

Exhibitionist / Voyeur
Degradation Lover

You can do the test for yourself here

The Sexual Bucket List

I saw this little list over at Mrs Discontented’s blog and thought I might give it a go. It’s a sexual bucket list of 50 sexual things you should do before you die and can be originally found here. Should be fun 🙂

Kiss a girl – Yup, more than a couple
Have anal – Yup, doesn’t happen very often though
Have a threesome – Yes indeedy, a couple of times
Engage in group sex – Yup, I sure have
Have phone sex – Phone sex, text sex, big ol’ yes
Masturbate – Of course!!
Use a vibrator – Yup, this and masturbation do tend to go somewhat hand-in-hand
Use a sex toy on someone else – Yup, great fun 😀
Be tied up – Nope, but I do have some restraints that we haven’t gotten around to using yet
Tie someone up – No, I would be the one that gets tied up… unless, of course, I get instructed to tie someone up… I’m sadomasochistic that way
Have sex in a public space – Yup, once in the changing rooms at a swimming pool
Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live, porn does not count) – Yup, that tends to happen when you engage in group sex and visit Club SE
Sex in a car – Nope and I can’t imagine it would be very easy
Sex at a drive-in -Nope, don’t have drive-in’s here
Mile-high club – Nope, and like sex in a car, I can’t imagine this would be particularly easy
Sex with a stranger – Nope
One-night stand – Yep, a couple of times
Married sex (the best kind, in my opinion) – Nope, gotta be married first to be able to have that
Sex on a boat – Nope, not a big fan of boats
Sex in a body of water – Nope, not really a fan of water or swimming either
Light spanking – Yup and heavy spanking.
Read erotica – Yup, it’s great, depending on the author and style of writing, but you can say that with any kind of literature
Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game – Yup, it’s a good ice breaker when meeting for group sex for the first time
Sex in the shower – Yup, can make for some interesting positions
Sex standing up against a wall – Nope, haven’t found a partner who is the right height for it to happen
Sex with no kissing – Yup, just the once though. I’m a big fan of kissing while engaging in sex but sometimes that doesn’t work in group sex.
Sex in the pitch black – Yup
Sex in the broad daylight – Yup
Making out with no sex long after you’re no longer a virgin – Yup, it’s not all about PnV sex, sometimes you can reach the level of connection need just through kissing and roaming hands
Sex in a tent in the wilderness – Nope, but I would love to, don’t even need the tent!!
Watch porn together – Yup, a couple who watch porn together, stay together 🙂
Watch porn alone – Yup
Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms – Yup, I sure have 😀
Sex on the beach – Nope, and I have no desire to get sand into places that sand really shouldn’t go
Blindfolds – Yup, just the once though, should do it more often
Using ice sexually – Yup
Sexual role play – Nope, interested though
Whipped cream – Nope, have used ice cream though
La Perla lingerie sex – Um no, I don’t understand why this is on the list…
Frederick’s of Hollywood lingerie sex – No, don’t understand why this one is here either…
Sex with someone much older – Yup, a 40yr old, 34yr old and 32yr old while I was 22 (my “slut phase”)
Sex with someone younger (legal!) – Yup, a couple of 20yr olds while I was 24
Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner – Nope, honeymoon should fix that though
A quickie in a skirt – Yup
A longie in the rain – Nope, I imagine that would just get really cold
Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you – Nope
Feather ticklers – Have one, it just tickles though
Sex while “altered” whether by alcohol or something else – Yup, not for a pretty long time though
Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone – Yup, that’s why foreplay is important 😀
Silent sex in a full house – Yup, hard for me to keep quiet though… I get a bit caught up in the moment

And there you have it! Possibly more than you ever needed to know about me 😛

Formspring.me Questions & Answers Part 3

A roundup of the latest questions that I have been asked through formspring.me.

Question: Hey sweetie, the stupid twunt who is spouting shit, obviously is talking out their arse! How are you gorgeous? x

Answer: aww thank you sweetheart xx i’m doing pretty good 🙂 just looking for a civil union celebrant for our handfasting 🙂

Question: Many of your tweets focus on, or around, sex workers. Is this a personal issue for you?

Answer: i’m just supportive of sex workers rights 🙂 as well as women’s rights and queer rights

Question: What’s the best position you have been caught in?

Answer: only been caught once, and it was in missionary…still had my pants around my ankles 😛 one of my only two one night stands

Question: What’s the best homemade dildo you have used? (Mine was a condom covered tin of deodorant)

Answer: mine was a roll-on deodorant 🙂 with the cap on of course. the rounded top made it easy for penetration

Question: If there was one thing you could do over again, what would it be and why?

Answer: i wouldn’t want to do anything continually over and over again…everything in moderation

Question: Fav workouts?

Answer: don’t have one

Question: Fav night wear?

Answer: what i wore to our engagement party 🙂 grey leopard print tights, black & red rose print frilly skirt with a black tendrilly dress over the top and a yellow 3/4 cardie 🙂 oh with my white docs of course

Question: Fav cartoon as a child?

Answer: care bears and my little pony!!

Question: Choose one. Lick, suck or bite?

Answer: bite

Question: First impression of me? Has it changed now? Am I a bitch or a friend?

Answer: you’re totally a friend 🙂 always thght you were a cool chick and i still do now

Question: Do you like being watched?

Answer: oh yes i most certainly do 😀

Question: You’ve accepted a job as a researcher on a remote island with no access to the comforts of home. No TV, Radio, Internet. The company will deliver an unlimited amount of any one drink and any one food item to your island weekly. What do you have delivered

Answer: revive vitamin water and vanilla cupcakes 🙂

Question: What is your favorite holiday? What is the best memory you have of that holiday?

Answer: visiting J’s parents for the first time, the whole family made me feel so welcome 😀

Ask me absolutely anything, i mean anything 😛